I had never heard of such a "test"? Is this what men are doing???
Here was the senario...
It was our first date...we sat at the bar and had drinks and talked for several hours...he walked me to my car where we kissed goodnight...then he asked "Do you wanna take this back to my place?"
I was shocked...what had I done to give off the vibe that I was a "ho"? I read him the riot act and let him know that if he was just "DTF" (down the f$ck) that he should look elsewhere. He apologized and said it was "all good."
After a month of continuing to see each other...he admitted that he ran the "ho test" on me....which involved asking a girl back to your place on the first date to see if she's a HO!!! This is something one of his idiot friends had come up with...clearly they had done their research...
He claimed that he didn't want to date a girl that would give it up that easily (fair enough)...but seriously...WTF??? How many men are running this "test?"
I googled "ho test" and this is what I found...
It's pretty freaking amazing...honestly, this is just what I needed...a good harsh dose of reality! Ladies beware...you need to read this article!!!
To read the full article (parts 1 and 2) visit http://www.askheartbeat.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=81&Itemid=27
Here are some excerpts to peak your interest...
The 'Ho Test: Lady or 'Ho?
All men, from hard core players and pimps to hardworking, churchgoing “husband material” will run some variation of the ‘ho test on every woman they meet. How you handle the questions put forth and the situations you will find yourself in shall determine your future. Whether he puts feelings into a relationship with you, or labels you low class, easy, trifling, money-grubbing good for nothing and commences to use you for whatever he can get before moving on is what is at stake...
Keeping in mind that most men believe ‘you can’t turn a ‘ho into a housewife, when a guy meets you he is going to seek answers to many questions: “Can I dazzle her with bullshit, cheat on her, get with her on the under (though I am dating her best friend)? I just broke up with her best friend who she knows still has feelings for me... will she be trifling enough to pick me over someone that has been her friend for years? Will she be a lady and honor and respect me in front of my buddies or go for the game they throw? Will she put me in check or leave my butt if I act a fool, or will she let me have my cake and eat it too? Is she a lady I might consider wife material or a broke down stupid ‘ho?”
Passing A ‘Ho Test
A man is not going to tell or warn you in advance that he is running the ‘ho test - that defeats the whole purpose of the pop quiz!
So ladies...beware...if you act like a pro...you might be a ho!
*Those are my own personal words of advice*
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